Oh yeaH`.. sO long sInce i lAst bLogged.. soo lAzy.. wat i can saY`.. i feeL sOo laZy and sOo tired and sOo bOred aBt Poly LiFe.. it's dOesnt realLy brIng aNy Life.. jUz........ freaKin sOo bOred u nOe`~ **sIighHh**

Ltr gOin tO Ytss fOr intiaTion rItz!! Oh yes!! tt cOol K?! cOuncilLor camP , miNd U! It's tHe mPst excItin tinK of the caMp`.. =DD sOo lOokIn fOrwaRd.. *grIn* bettEr finish tIs entRy b4 i gO oUt agAIn`.. =)

receNtly i beeN tis bOok naMed '' Shut Up, Stop Whining, and get a Life! '' Hey maNz.. tIs bOok cOol k.. veRy meAninful.. * thOugh sOme Parts i dOn realLy agrEe wif waT he says`..* i wilL write dOwn sOme paRts whIch i THOUGHT i mayb meaningfUl`...

'' Marriage is a social cantract that imposes fears, guilt, obligation, and compromises individuality. Fear and love cannot exist at the same time, Guilt serves no purpose but to destroy. Obligation breeds resentment. Compromised individuality is the loss of self.'' [[ i find the last sentence nice ^,~ ]]

''When you marry, You give each other your hearts right? Well, forget about it; that a bad idea. most people do not have to enough thoughts going for them to think for themselves, much less enough to share. Marriage is about sharin time. It is not about sharing your heart or thoughts. ''

'' In any relationship, you must maintain individuality. Most relationship rob people of their individuality. It seems ince we are in a relationship we can no longer think without the aid of the other person. We suddenly cannot decide what to wear or what we look good in. We cannot figure out what type of music we like, what type of food we like to eat, where we like to go, wat we like to do, and if we got the time to do it without checking with our ''other half'' or ''better half'' first. Well, what haPpened to us? We gave up our individuality. We entered into relationship to find to ourselves only to end up losing ourselves instead.

So, maintain ur individuality. Stay who you are. Develop yourself as an individual. The better you are, the better the 2 of you will be. Give each other space. Allow separateness in terms of tastes, space, interest, and friends. ''

'' The more space you allow and encourage within a relationship, the more the relationship will flourish. ''

'' the secret of a happy marriage remains a secret '' - Henry Youngman

'' The purpose of relationship is not to have another complete you. But to have another with whom to share your completeness''

Do you think tt '' I'll will take care of you for the rest of your life'' is a very meaningful sentence? Well, it might sound right but sometimes, when quarrels occured, this promise is broken in one way or another. You cant expect that you never once said before right? Instead '' Love, Honor, Respect'' Are wat you needed and expect in a relationship.

-i love you enough to want the best for you and give you my very best in all our dealings.-

-i honour you enough to be honest with you, to share my time with you and to make myself vulnerable to you by sharing the best of who i am with you.-

-i respect you enough to hold you in yhe higest esteem to others, never degrading who you are or what we have together.-